Ada Gilliland was the fifth child of John Edward Gilliland and his wife 
      Ada Isabel (nee Lee). Her older siblings were Vera, Rena, Gladys and Jack. 
      She was born in the family home at number 2, Flag Row, Sunniside near 
      Crook in County Durham. The house is still lived in although the street is 
      now Flag Terrace. Her father was a miner and, before she was married, her 
      mother had been a teacher.She was recorded on the 1911 census, 
      the form was completed by her father and he stated that Ada was 5 months 
      old and she, her brother and three sisters lived with their Mam and Dad at 
      Sunniside, Tow Law, Co. Durham. 
        
      When Ada was about 5 years old the family left Sunniside and moved to 
      Chester-le-Street. The move was prompted by a career change for her 
      father. He left the mines and became a political agent for the Labour 
      Party. At first, the family lived in Fife Street but then moved a small 
      distance to 49 Bullion Lane which stands (still) at the junction with 
      Second Avenue and items of mail were addressed there as well as to Bullion 
      Lane, but it is the latter which is in the Electoral Registers of the 
      time. 
        
      Soon, possibly immediately after the move, Ada would have started at 
      primary school, but it is not known which school. In September 1922, she 
      entered the secondary school and was a good pupil. Her report book is 
      still in the family and in the final one for the summer term in 1929, the 
      final comment is 'An excellent record throughout her seven years at 
      school'. On leaving the school, Ada entered a two-year course at Neville 
      Cross Teacher Training College. There is no doubt that she was very 
      gregarious and she made friends at Neville Cross and remained in contact 
      with them throughout the rest of her life. She began teaching in 1931 and 
      left Lumley Mixed School in 1935. 
        
      As observed in the page on William Pallister Richardson, the Gillilands 
      were friendly with the Richardsons of Durham as a joint family outing in 
      1925 to Gilsland attests. And there was a strong attraction between the 
      two young folk. Ada's move to the college, which was on the western edge 
      of Durham, in 1929 must have a very good one in more that one way. Bill 
      had just started his degree course in Newcastle, but he was commuting from 
      Durham, so opportunities to be together were available. It is likely that 
      after taking up her teaching career, Ada returned to the family home in 
      Bullion Lane. At that time, her Aunt Sarah (Lee) lived with the family. 
      She was a primary school teacher who had moved down from Sunniside a few 
      years before and continued to live with the Gillilands until her death in 
      March 1933. Around the same time, Bill Richardson, having completed his 
      degree and a teaching course, moved into digs in Third Avenue. Although 
      this wasn't the house next door, it was more or less over the back garden 
      fence from 49 Bullion Lane. 
        
      So the romance blossomed and at some point the couple became engaged. They 
      bought a house on the north-west side of Chester-le-Street (quite close to 
      Usworth where Bill had been born). And they got married on Easter Saturday 
      1935, which was on April 20th. Having got married, off they went on their 
      honeymoon to London, in a hotel just off Russell Square. (It is a moot 
      point as to whether either of them had been to London before, although 
      Ada's sister Gladys was there for her honeymoon in 1929.) 
      It isn't known for sure (yet) but it is likely that on her marriage, Ada 
      was unable to continue teaching and would have been the home-maker. During 
      the early years of their marriage, there were some holidays recorded. One 
      was at the newly opened Butlin's holiday camp in Skegness and another with 
      the Holiday Fellowship in Lyme Regis (in 1939). The late 1930s were stormy 
      times and once war had begun, decisions had to be made. The upshot was 
      that her young husband joined the RAF and disappeared to North Africa for 
      four years and in those days there was no home leave or certainty of any 
      happy reunion. However, the rules about teaching changed and Ada was back 
      in the classroom once more. Correspondence and photographs exist and they 
      came through the dark days and Bill returned to England in the summer of 
      1944. Though Bill remained in the RAF for some time, leave was available 
      and on May 31st 1945, Ada gave birth to a son. He was named William 
      Pallister (as were his father, grandfather and a great-uncle). 
        
      These must have been very happy years but Ada's husband wanted to advance 
      his career. So in the autumn of 1948, the family moved to a converted RAF 
      camp near Lytham St Annes. Although this was just for two years, they made 
      friends and kept in touch with them for many years after. In 1950, they 
      were again on the move. Bill had been appointed as headmaster of a 
      secondary modern boys school in Halesowen. For three years, they lived in 
      a three-story house, in Harborne, a suburb of Birmingham but in 1953, they 
      moved to a newly built house on the west of Halesowen. Sadly, doing these 
      early years, Ada's parents died, her mother first followed very soon 
      afterwards by her father. 
        
      So they settled in, Ada was able to take on some teaching work. There were 
      several short spells, some in primary schools but in due course, she took 
      on a permanent post in a secondary modern school in Halesowen. Both Ada 
      and Bill were very active in the Moose organisation and she supported him 
      in his role as head-master and also as a Rotarian. She was a regular blood 
      donor and had a passion for knitting and they both took active parts in 
      the National Union of Teachers with several trips to annual conferences. 
      So life must have seemed very good, a son doing well at school, numerous 
      family holidays and visits to her family in the North East. In due course, 
      in 1963, young Bill went off to university in Manchester and did well but, 
      much to Ada's chagrin, he did not become a high powered business executive 
      but he developed a passion for teaching. In December 1968, young Bill 
      married Krystyna Pospieszalska who he had met at university and they 
      settled into a house in Cheadle Hulme. After five years of teaching, the 
      itchy feet set in and young Bill took up post as head of mathematics at 
      Elgin Academy, much too far away for Ada's liking. However, in 1971, Bill 
      retired from his headship and Ada also retired so they had more time at 
      their disposal. They bought a touring caravan and also had holidays 
      overseas but, after a year to two decided that they wanted to be nearer 
      their son. So in the spring of 1974, they moved to a village called 
      Lhanbryde on the edge of Elgin. They had a nice little cottage and things 
      must have seemed set fair for them but, very suddenly and out of the blue, 
      on July 24th, Ada's husband died. 
        
      This was a massive blow, but in true style, Ada picked herself up. Bill 
      had been the car driver and any attempts by Ada to learn had been 
      short-lived. But Krys and Bill bullied and cajoled her into having another 
      try. A mini-automatic was bought and in 1975 the driving test was passed! 
      This opened up her life again. She could visit friends near and far with 
      several trips to the family in Durham. She was able to help chauffeur 
      youngsters around. She assisted as a driver for meals-on-wheels and it 
      should be recalled that all this was going on well after passing birthday 
      number 65. 
        
      So life went on but as 65 turned to 75 and then 80, she began to fail. It 
      was imperceptible at first but gradually became more apparent. She was 
      still able to live on her own but her mobility was reduced and then in 
      1995, she fell in her cottage and was unable to get up, so was on a cold 
      floor all night. Fortunately, Bill was down the next morning but she 
      needed to be in hospital and assessments showed that she would have been 
      unsafe to return to live on her own. So, she moved, somewhat unwillingly, 
      into a very good care home in Elgin. Krys and Bill visited regularly and she 
      was able to be taken out and even stay at Kintail from time to time. But 
      in March 2000, she fell again and died in hospital very soon afterwards 
      and this was followed by cremation at Broadley. Had she survived a few 
      more months, she would have been 90. 
        
      As had her husband, Ada led a very full life from a beginning as a miner's 
      daughter in a tiny house which was really very humble. But she and many 
      others of her family were fired by a passion to keep going on and do 
      things for themselves and also for the benefit of others. And this she did 
      in wonderful style. 
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